Asked crush out but he didnt respond

Basically, I decided to ask out a co-worker I've been interested in. I've been playful/teasing around him, which he seemed to enjoy (he'd joke back, etc.). Whenever he was around my office for work, he'd usually drop in to talk, so we've been pretty friendly.

Now, I had never asked anyone out before, so I decided to go with what I figured was a relatively innocuous question, something like - "Hey, I've been meaning to ask you, would you like to go to a movie or something, sometime?" "Like during our vacations?" (we're both going on vacation around the same time). His answer was something noncommittal; I think it was -small laugh(? like a puff of air), slight smile, and a "we'll see".

I'm assuming this means he's not interested? But I'm not 100% sure. He's a generally straight-laced type of guy (not very playful in general), and I think he's a virgin (there was an indirect mention), so I'm wondering if he was just surprised. I'm curious as to what the Hive thinks. Thanks!

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